Finding Your Life's Purpose

FINDING YOUR LIFE’S PURPOSE

By Kim Somers Egelsee

Inspirational speaker/www.kimlifecoach.com

Throughout our lives, we achieve, succeed, learn, grow, play and much more. Much of this we do with the help, participation and involvement of other people. Sometimes we have a group of people that we spend regular time with. Other times it is our best friend, significant other or co-worker. Additionally, it can be the help of a mentor, coach, workshop or seminar. One phrase or sentence from someone can be life changing, inspirational and filled with meaning. Something you hear, learn or experience can cause you to change your path and move toward your true dreams. Regardless of which human being is involved, we get a lot of joy from letting others into our lives. Relationships are fundamental to a fulfilling life.

Following your passion makes life easier, more fulfilling and enables you to be a living example For some people in today’s times, a new business or a side business can lead to greater income freedom and stability.. For others, moving up or growing in their current career is inspirational. Ultimately, finding your deep dreams, passions and purpose is key to getting every area of your life to a 10 plus.

          July 9, 2011 in Huntington Beach, Kim Somers Egelsee and Howard Crampton Jr. are leading a life purpose workshop that will be life changing. They will be helping people find their purpose, gain focus and clarity about their lives, create definitive dreamboards for manifestation, eliminate emotional baggage holding you back and much more. http://www.good-terms.com/ is the official sponsor of the extraordinary workshop. The special positive word decals will be used for definitive dreamboarding.

Readers that mention Good Terms will receive special priced admission of $97 per person for this workshop. Contact Kim Somers Egelsee at kimmy_somers@yahoo.com or www.kimlifecoach.com for this special rate.

CREATING BALANCE ON LAND AND AT SEA

I am blessed and so inspired to be speaking with extraordinary speaker/coach/writer; Windsor Lindor at many upcoming events. His warmth, sincerity and greatness exude from him in a contagious manner. At these events you will destress, add balance, get rid of limiting beliefs, and learn to live on purpose and empowered. At the same time, you will add adventure, fun and harmony to your mind, body and being.
June 18th: San Pedro 9:30am-4pm Creating Balance Seminar (register at http://www.windsorlindor.com/)
October 23-30  Seminar at Sea Cruise to Mexican Riviera (3 half day workshops) Register at http://www.windsorlindor.com/ 
Experience excitement, balance and joy all at once by attending!

Top 12 TIPS and TOOLS for Extreme Confidence and Joy

1. know yourself well- read, study, attend seminars, work with a coach/mentor, spend time with lie minded positive people.
2. find and know your life purpose; what makes you energized and fulfilled- purpose+ intention+ positive people, thoughts and actions,+ what you radiate+ let go = it will flow
3. be happy- remind your brain when you are happy; it trains you to look for and embraxce happiness more often.
4. be in your full positive power
5. create your own power phrase (Example: My smile exudes joy, passion and inspiration!)
6. ask 5 people you trust to give you feedback
7. laugh at yourself more
8. living by example (you can change someone's life with a sentence).
9. keep photos of you at your best
10.  look into mirror til you love yourself: affirmations
11.  see  beauty in everything
12.  meditate, pray, be in nature, gardening, art, singing

THE POWER OF TEAMWORK

Inspiration from self and others is key for a joyful life. When a person regularly reads, attends seminars, communicates with others and grows from life experiences, they have the chance to be regularly inspired. When two positive, faith filled, passionate people work together, meet, or connect, a third energy is created. When a group of five people meet with intentions for greatness, a tenfold energy is created! Imagine the power you can draw out of this intense energy. Knowledge, wisdom and ideas are shared, the people involved grow, show the world what they have become, and the result is an amazing positivity to self and others.

          The formula of know + grow + show= glow is helpful to remember. The more knowingness you develop through reading, life experiences, attending workshops and seminars, and learning from others, the more that you will grow. Then, in turn, you show others by helping, teaching and living by example. As a result of this, you glow with radiance naturally with joy. What a wonderful way to live.

MAKE ROOM FOR WHAT YOU DESIRE

                   Desire used in a positive way, is the key to getting what you want in life. Desire is having a mixture of hope, faith, and eagerness related to where you see yourself, who you see yourself with, and what you see yourself doing in life. It is a strong motive mixed with passion, inspiration, intention and action. Desires, when used in a powerful manner, always mixed with a good amount of reason, can get a person to create their own opportunities and jump into them, buy the home they've always dreamed of, find their life's purpose, be with their true soulmate, and more.  Desire begins as a thought, is then mixed with passion and inspiration, and with hope and faith, turns into motivated action.
                   An important aspect of your life to assess, is if there is anything unnecessary or negative present, that needs modification or elimination. Are you spending time with draining people?, are you watching too much television?, playing video games daily, in a job that you do not enjoy? Make a list of at least three things that you can get rid of or lessen, to make room for true desire to come in and uplift your life. When this space is created, it leaves your mind open, and the desires can begin. There is room to realize that maybe you'd like more positive people in your life, some extra date nights with your partner, a dream career. There is room now for your brain to start working on who you could teach you the information that could help you begin that dream job?, where you could meet those new people, and more. This making space is so profound, that sometimes you are just led into opportunities through your new stronger intuition.
                    Remember, you deserve to have your desires turn into your dreams, which will turn into reality when mixed with passion, faith and action. You are here on this planet for a reason. Regardless of anything at all that occured in your past, learn from it, and go soar to success. Turning your desires into dreams and then reality will allow you to help others, just by living as a powerful example. This alone, is a huge reason to go for it, get up and go, take flight!!!

WOMEN POWER!!!!

             Girls, ladies, females, divas, chicks; all of us have much more in common than we realize. We all need love, we have powerful energy and intuition, we have that mother instinct, goddess vibes, ability to multi-task, enhanced empathy, strength, sweetness and more. The special and inspirational element is when we can  come together, see deeply into one another's souls and truly connect and support each other. It is an uplifting feeling when there is a fairly large group of women that are all getting along positively. It becomes one shared energetic space that gives all who are in it, a peace, power and depth.
                Relationships are what life is all about. When a woman feels supported, and in her female power, she has the ability to elevate her family and friends, and achieve more. It is an invigorating feeling when we have a knowingness that we have built a foundation of women who encourage, appreciate, reassure, and truly "SEE" us , and love us for who we are.
                The formation of Willow Tree Women's Circle was for this purpose. A group of women, spending quality time together discussing positive and powerful life topics, bonds us together in deep ways, that keep expanding, growing, and intensifying. In turn, our intuition is heightened, our love, appreciation and awareness of self is magnified, so that it begins to flow outward to others. As a result, we are all living by example, helping others by just being ourselves, giving other women permission to be in their full positive power too!
                 The willow tree is the perfect name and symbol. The willow tree symbolizes a woman's strength and flexibility without breaking. It reminds us to keep growing higher, no matter where you are planted. The willow is known for it's water and moon attributes, and symbolizes intuition for a clearer understanding of the world. Some psychics believe that the wands made from willow tree bark, can help one receive visions, heighten intuition and develop clairvoyance. It stands for harmony and resonance( vibrating with sympathy), creativity, fertility, love, protection and healing. Most significantly it stands for female rites of passage. That is another powerful reason that a group of women can enhance greatness. It creates the space for women to grow, expand, and become even more of her true self.
                    Celebrate being a woman! Come join us at Willow Tree Women's Circle once per month. A delightful group of women bonding, discussing life, wonderful teachings, guest speakers, inspiration, guided meditations, fun exercises and more! http://www.kimlifecoach.com/WILLOW-TREE-WOMEN-S-CIRCLE.html
           

"STEPS SIX AND SEVEN FOR GETTING YOUR LIFE TO A 10 PLUS"

Steps six and seven are so significant in getting your life balanced, extraordinary, tranquil and amazing. Step six is setting goals. It is best to pick three, with one being the biggest and most emphasized. Make sure that these goals are in line with your life purpose. A great way to evaluate if your goals and dreams truly fit the real you, is to spend several minutes  thinking about what you are grateful for, what you feel could make you even happier, what you enjoy doing so much that it is effortless, and even what you loved doing as a child. After creating this list, think about how each of these things makes you feel. Does being grateful for family make you feel joyful? If you would be happier in a different career would that give you an enthusiastic feeling? As a child, did playing softball make you feel free? If yes, then your special feelings would be joy, enthusiasm, and freedom. These will help you in deciding if your goals meet your true conscious needs.
           For example, Joe's goal is to become more organized at work by the end of the year. Joe realizes that he needs a goal that makes him feel appreciated, calm and focused. By creating this organization goal, the outcome will give him these three feelings. On the other hand, Joe had a goal to begin playing in a local band on the weekends by November. He evaluated this, and realized that this goal's outcome or result would not make him feel calm or focused. Therefore, he eliminated that goal, and chooses to jam with friends once in awhile instead.
             Be sure that each of your goals has benchmarks or steps for achievement. What will you do each week to ensure that this goal is met? It is helpful to find an accountability partner to keep you on track. It also works well to mark these steps into your planner each week. You can post your purpose and goals in an area of your home, where you are continously reminded of what you are working towards. Additionally, it is an excellent idea to take a business card or paper and write out your purpose and goals to keep in your purse or wallet. You can add affirmations or tips for living well too. This way, you stay on track, constantly reminded of your greatness. Goals ensure that you are moving forward!
              The final step in getting your life to a ten plus is to self evaluate. Find out the value of what you are doing, where you are going, who you are spending time with, what you are saying to yourself and others, and your integrity. Do you walk your talk? Take some time every month or two to really ask yourself where you are at in the areas of relationships, social life, career/purpose, spirituality, fun and recreation, finance, and health/wellness. Rate yourself. The areas where you are not yet at a high level, find out why. What choices could you be making that raise this rating? Can you get rid of some things in your life to focus on what is of true value to you? Do whatever you can to move forward. Ask for help, read books, take steps toward greatness. It is so worth it!