Monday, March 4, 2013

CREATIVE OCCASIONS INSPIRE A MOMPRENEUR’S SUCCESS BY KIM SOMERS EGELSEE and CORINNE CARR



I am a T.V. host, author and inspirational speaker and love to be inspired while being creative. When I am writing, planning an event, decorating for a party, painting, choosing an outfit for something spectacular, or thinking up a new workshop, it is extremely helpful when someone or something inspires or teaches me. Creative inspiration can sometimes come from a speaker at a seminar I attend that gives me a new idea, or my Mom showing me a new painting she created. It comes from a look at new fashions on the Romeo & Juliet Couture website and falling in love with them to wear, as I visualize my confidence and success at the events I could wear them at.  Often, I come up with amazing ideas as I go on adventures with my two daughters to a botanical gardens or a park. The inspiration is endless.
As I am currently planning a huge red carpet book launch event, there is so much to do with the DJ, food, decorations, speakers, venue, topics and more. I began to think of where I have received both the learning and the inspiration for being able to plan large events like this.  It was from a great friend of mine, Corinne Carr. Corinne and I used to be roommates, and have known each other for over ten years. She is a highly successful event designer/decorator, interior designer and businesswoman who balances it all. She is a true “mompreneur.” I used to go help her with big events such as a huge birthday party at an art gallery, a charity fundraiser for a big hockey team, or a giant bash for a famous Hollywood star. I learned the ropes from her, as I observed her artistic talent, and organization. I realize that this is why my events are always so seamless and fun. I am so grateful to Corinne, and feel that she has so much wisdom to offer others, so I decided to interview her.

 How did you get started and when? Talk about your climb to success.
My background is in interior design, but really, art and designing has always been a huge part of my life.  Both of my parents are artists, and I just grew up with art all around me. While I was still in school for interior design, I actually started Creative Occasions, and my very first event was a birthday party for a five year old in California.  That was sort of like starting at square one, and now I've grown the business into what it is today.  We do large scale events, huge parties and celebrations – and also private events and parties.

I don't think someone's climb to success, at least for me, is ever really finished.  There's always room for improvement, room to do bigger and better events.  And for me, it’s not so much about finding success as it is about following dreams and doing something that I absolutely love.  I feel fortunate that my passion is what I get to do every day!!

I know that business success is important because each event we do has to be perfect, we have to bring each client’s event to life – and when we do that right, that is success.  But I’m also very blessed to have an awesome husband and two wonderful daughters.  Personal success is equally, if not more important, than business success.  I’m grateful that my husband is super supportive of the business, and in fact he became a part of it over 4 years ago.  So together we get to share in both personal and professional success!

 Explain your path to getting to where you are now? How long did it take?
I’ve always been a really hands on type person.  When I was a kid, I used to love to help my dad in the garage.  I would work on different projects around the house with my mom.  I was never afraid to get involved with a project and get dirty in the process, so I think that building props just came naturally to me.  I’m all too familiar with getting paint all over me while building, but then I also get to dress up for client meetings.  It’s almost like leading a double life.

To get where you want to be, I think it’s a continual process, at least it has been for me.  Things constantly change in this industry.  We always need to create new and bigger props, and we’re always working in new venues and spaces.  I like to say that the one thing that stays the same is that everything always changes.


 What's the best way to market and build clientele?
Referrals!  Referrals are key in this business.  And if you’re good at what you do, they will roll right in.  If you think about it, every guest at an event is a potential client.  And what better way for them to see what you can do than by experiencing it first-hand.  When a client is happy, they will tell their guests and friends.  So definitely referrals make up a big part of our clientele.

Another good portion of our customers are actually repeat clients.  We have some that start out as corporate clients, maybe for a company celebration, and then the client will call us for a wedding or baby shower.  Repeat clients make us proud because it means what we’re doing something right!

To get new clients, I also find that direct, one-on-one meetings are a great way to show a client what we have to offer.  I’m super passionate about what I do, and I think that is conveyed in those meetings.


 Describe your work ethic.
To be in the event and design industry, and to be successful at it, you have to be a hard worker – and I am!  I’m also a perfectionist, which is a good thing in this business.  I always go above and beyond for every event and every client.  To me, your event has to be special, no matter what it is or what your budget.  The budget doesn’t dictate the type of service you get.  Every client gets the same level of service from us, which is personal service with attention to every single detail.


 What's life like as a working mom and how do you balance it all?
Laughter!  I think that no matter what you do as a working mom, you never feel completely balanced.  I’m a mom, a sister, a wife, a dog rescuer, a business owner… I’m pulled in so many different directions. I wish I could increase the 24 hours to 48 hours in a day!  I truly believe that it’s not so much about the amount of time spent with loved ones, but more about the quality of the time spent.  Make sure you’re doing something fun or meaningful.  Just today I had a couple hours where I got to take my two girls bowling.  It meant getting away from work, not being at the computer, ignoring the ringing cell phone and pings of text messages.  I just needed to be with my daughters and spend that quality time with them.  Then later in the day, it was back to work for me – working on proposals pretty much for the rest of the day.  But spending that time with my girls rejuvenated me and reminded me of why I do what I do!  It’s all for them and my family.


 Describe any failures you had in your business and how you turned them into learning or gifts?
Failure is a harsh word and I believe that any shortcoming can be looked at as a learning opportunity.  I started Creative Occasions in California, and I grew and learned from my early time in the business and industry there.  When I came to Arizona, I felt that I got to start fresh with all that knowledge!  I knew what would work and what wouldn’t.  Learning from your own experiences is so valuable.  And when you can recognize that you have certain weaknesses in addition to your strengths, you can find people who will complement your own abilities, or who can do something better than you, which will be beneficial for your business.  Matt and I are a good team and him coming on board with the business was a blessing and a gift.


Describe your most successful moment in your business and personal life.
When we purchased a piece of land and built the new warehouse and I saw it full of the props we built – and then actually outgrew that space in just a few months – that’s one of my proudest moments in the business.  Like I said before, that climb to success is never really over and done with for me.  But when I stood back and saw all that we’d accomplished inside that warehouse, I had that completely satisfied and fulfilled feeling.  Whenever I go into the warehouse, I just feel like a kid in a candy store.  And a silly little early-on moment of success for me was back when I was in California, just starting out, and I received a tip for an event I did – and the tip was bigger than my first event budget!  Like I said, it’s silly but it really settled on me that a customer was truly happy with what I did and wanted to go above and beyond to thank me for it.

In my personal life, success for me has been to watch my children grow and the interaction between the two of them.  One is 4 years old and the other is only 10 months old, but seeing them together is my personal success.  It makes all of the hard work I do for the business worth it.  I can’t wait to see what they will be in the future.  Will they be artists?  Entrepreneurs?  I can’t wait to see what their lives will become.  It’s very exciting to think about!


 What's the best way to get into event decorating?
If you're passionate about it, you’ll find a way to get into the business.  Some of it can be taught, but some of it is just natural talent.  And more than people realize, they are artistic!  Each and every one of us has an artist inside.  It might be harder work for some, but when someone taps into their own talents and abilities, people are surprised with what they can create!

Just find a way to be creative in your own everyday life.  For me, as a child I constantly re-decorate my bedroom.  Every month, I’d try something different.  It’s also important to really see the world around you.  You can find inspiration everywhere; magazines, clothing, of course traveling.  I see things when I’m just out and about at a store, or even daycare, and it sparks an idea.

Basically, just figure out what you like and start decorating and designing.  There are so many different facets of design out there – interior design, web design, event design.  Just go look around and see what inspires you!  And of course it can never hurt to have a mentor!


 Describe a few major tips on how to make your event or party more fabulous.
Well, hire Creative Occasions, of course!  Just kidding… Right now, mixing numerous fabric colors and textures is really popular -- the camera loves it, too, so you are guaranteed some fun and interesting photos!  And in this industry, bigger is always still better.  Big props and tall centerpieces really make an impact on your guests when they come into your event!  And if you're working on a tighter budget, "bigger" can give the illusion that you spent more money to create your fabulous looking event.

A personalized take home gift is not only a great memory of the event, but it can also provide your guests with an unforgettable experience.  It could be a photo or an interactive video -- there are so many options these days!  Be creative and imaginative, but always remember to let your personality shine through!

Most importantly, if you are the one hosting the event, be sure to smile and have fun.  Once the party has begun, it’s your job to be the hostest with the mostest! You are the one who sets the mood, so enjoy the event like you're one of the guests!

 Describe your attitude and philosophy related to business.
Whatever time and energy it takes to get the job done right – I’ll do it!  I always want to exceed every client’s expectations.  The event design business can be tough and try people’s patience.  But the only time I actually like to see someone cry is when they walk into the decorated room for the first time and become so overwhelmed with what Creative Occasions has designed for them.  Those are the good kind of tears!

Corinne Carr can be found at www.creativeoccasions.com   Her husband Matt Carr and her daughters travel for business and fun and are the most fab event decorators around!

Kim Somers Egelsee can be found at www.kimlifecoach.com Her new book, “Getting Your Life to a Ten +; tips and tools for finding your purpose, being in your power and living an amazing life” will be launched on March 14th ! Buy a copy on Amazon between 9-11am Pacific time and help make it a best seller!



Wednesday, January 30, 2013

Guest Blogger Jeanette Ortega teaches us Confidence!


As Coco Chanel states, a girl should be 2 things: Classy and Fabulous! I agree 100% with her... BUT, I would add one more word: Confident!! 

What woman doesn't want all 3?! 

To me, when I truly feel fabulous I show it, it exudes from my entire being. My confidence in myself shows and this is when I feel that Im at my best! This year I decided it was going to be my year to focus on the inside and not only the outside, time to create true balance in my life.
Last year I was crowned the title of a PRO Bikini Model with the WBFF. I had worked so hard on my physical, I was exuberant of my achievement but I also craved and missed true balance in my life. At times certain goals overtake our lives and that's ok but we must always remember that the key to true happiness is balance in all areas of our lives. I needed this in my business, my family time, my relationships, my other goals, my friends and the list goes on. There is only so much time during the day, how do we fit it all in and still feel fabulous?! 
My 1st step to feeling fabulous: Appreciation!! Everyday I pick one or two items in my life, whether its a person, a circumstance, etc and truly be grateful and appreciative of this in my life. This turns around any negative thoughts or feelings I may have going on that day, and it helps ease the feeling being overwhelmed. 

My 2nd step: Personal Time Outs
I have come to the decision that each day per week I have "ME TIME" just to focus on me. I allow myself to spend an hour any way I would like and all by myself. It could be taking a new class, reading a book, time outside, or whatever I decide. I've noticed the peace and excitement it has added to my life! I make that ME TIME a priority just like any other appointment and rarely do I cancel on myself! :) 

My 3rd step: Learning something new! I'm a business owner and my entrepreneurial mind is always on the go. One of the most exciting aspects of this part of me is learning something new, whether it pertains directly to my business or not. I have noticed by doing this it has affected many decisions I've needed to make, has increased my creativity and keeps my mind healthy and alert! 

My 4th step: Surrounding myself with positive people! 
I have no time or tolerance anymore for negativity. We get enough with hearing the news, reading the papers, I want to focus on positivity and continue to grow. My circle of friends are very important to me. We share creative ideas, support and encourage each other and the buildup of planning greatness with others is a feeling like no other. You are empowered! 

With all these steps my confidence level in myself is high, I appreciate what I have accomplished and how awesome my journey has been! I'm  focused on attaining more goals but with balance always in mind! For true fabulousness inside and out you must create a mind, body and soul connection... All must be fed on a continual basis. One cannot be favored more than another. When this is achieved you will exude a fabulous confidence like never before! I call this "My Confidence Garden", always planting, nurturing and weeding out! Always a work in progress for abundant growth! Join me in building your Confidence Garden! 


Jeanette Ortega
Owner/Trainer of Extreme Results Fitness
WBFF Pro Bikini Model
Published writer/ model 

Jeanette will be a guest at both February Willow Tree events!

Wednesday, January 23, 2013

February Willow Tree Press Release


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Contact: Kim Somers Egelsee                                                                     January 23, 2013
Tel: 714-423-8174                                                                                       FOR IMMEDIATE RELEASE
Email: kimmy_somers@yahoo.com


An Empowering Workshop for Women
FABULOUS, NOT FRUMPY; how to exude your inner and outer beauty, confidence, sex appeal and power -- Kim Somers Egelsee of Willow Tree Women’s Circle, a monthly connecting and networking group for women, will hold workshops at both Los Angeles and Orange County locations. These workshops will be held from 6:45pm – 9:45pm on February 14, 2013  at Valley Inn and Conference Center at 10621 Sepulveda Blvd., Mission Hills, CA 91345 and on Tuesday, February 19, 2013 Days Heritage Inn and Suites Conference Room at 333 Imperial Hwy, Fullerton, CA 92835.
Join Willow Tree Women’s Circle for a three hour motivational workshop on positivity and connecting. $20 fee includes networking, wine and chocolate tasting, food, guided meditations, free giveaways, interactive fun booths and activities and amazing guest speakers. This workshop will include speakers, authors and experts including;
Jenae Noonan; MMA National Champion fighter/inspirational speaker and model
Jeanette Ortega; CEO Extreme Results Fitness/Ms Bikini America/fitness expert/motivational speaker
Tiffany Hendra; Style and beauty expert; host and creator of Sanctuary of Style web series
Hidi Lee; Author/fashion lingerie designer/sex appeal expert
Lisa Cole; Style and fashion expert/lingerie fitting
Shelby Hughes Moratto; CEO Move it Mommas Fitness Gym/ Fitness instructor
Jennifer Braff; Model/Author/Beauty expert/ from TV’s “Age of Love” on NBC
          

“I can help you get your life to a 10 Plus.” Kim Somers Egelsee will help you discover your life’s purpose and get into your full positive power with 100% confidence. You’ll be empowered to eliminate stress and fear, which can prevent you from moving forward.  Kim shares tips, tools and techniques that really work to improve your life and can be applied immediately.
Kim Somers Egelsee is an Inspirational Speaker and Author who teaches people to live an extraordinary life through inspirational speaking, teaching and coaching. Willow Tree Women’s Circle is sponsored by Popchips, Frey Organic Wine, and Liquid Herbal Nitro Energy Drinks.


To register for Willow Tree Women’s Circle, for a $25 booth to promote your business, or to get more information, please email Kim at kimmy_somers@yahoo.com or visit www.kimlifecoach.com.

Tuesday, November 20, 2012

SUCCESS!!

THE SIMPLE FORMULA OF PASSION+ HAPPINESS+PEACE = SUCCESS
By Kim Somers Egelsee
We are always making new year's resolutions for specific goals, actions and habits. Why not instead, decide now with a firm commitment to have more happiness, passion and peace in 2013? This will ensure you have an excellent year. If we follow our heart and take part in what we are passionate and enthusiastic about, this will create more happiness. Since we won't be doing as many things that we do not like or resonate with; those things we feel like we "have" to or "should" be doing, we will have less stress and strife, and much more peace. How do we we commit to this new plan and stick with it? It starts with changing our state and influencing ourself. We must do things out of our comfort zone, and train our brain to shift. Try something new each week. Even small changes such as doing ten jumping jacks before your next networking meeting to enhance your enthusiasm will influence you to shift your attitude, and soon this will become a habit. You can make a list of what you are passionate about, read it daily, and start adding these things into your life, bit by bit. For example, if writing excites you, take an extension class on becoming a magazine columnist. If travel floats your boat, start saving for that dream trip to The Bahamas. In the meantime, plan excursions to local places that have unique appeal such as Catalina Island, The Latin American Museum of Art in Long Beach or San Juan Capistrano. Soon, because you are shifting your state, and taking action on your passions, your attitude, demeanor, mood and overall being will be happier and mpre at peace, which leads to increased success.

Tuesday, October 9, 2012

SUCCESS TIPS!


10 LEADERSHIP/SUCCESS/PROSPERITY-TIPS/TOOLS/WHAT’S IMPORTANT!

  1. Lead yourself; focus, be clear, motivate and inspire yourself to move forward with purpose, intention, passion and action. Live by Example.
  2. Position yourself as an expert. If you don’t believe in you, no one else can. Have confidence. Play BIG, BIGGER, BIGGEST!
  3. Walk the walk and talk the talk, having been there, done that, doing it, living it.
  4. REMINDER: bad thoughts= toxins to you and others; good thoughts= fuel for self and others
  5. Truly realize you can learn from everyone. Have genuine appreciation. NO HIERARCHY.
  6. Focus on the positive. No blaming. (think where the person is coming from; good or evil)
  7. Develop ideas, effectively plan, implement them with action and teamwork, and receive feedback and results.
  8. Inspiration+ Preparation+ Engaging a group or organization to achieve= success.
  9. Stand Out by being your true self, being bold, being outspoken in a positive way.
  10. Balance your schedule. Leave time for you. Don’t do too many things at once.

Tuesday, October 2, 2012

LOVE, INSPIRATION, FUN


23 SECRETS TO LOVE, INSPIRATION AND FUN!
  1. ../lphimages/believe-heart-inspiration-inspo-love-Know yourself well; step back and analyze what you are doing, who you are spending time with, and your choices.
  2. Discover and know your life purpose; what makes you energized and fulfilled?
  3. Be happy; take the time to be aware of the little things that make you feel joy.
  4. Be in your full positive power; confident, self appreciative. You DO have a lot to offer.
  5. Create your own power phrase
  6. Ask 5 people you trust to give you feedback; this can help you know how others see you, help you to see yourself and be more aware of the gifts you radiate out.
  7. Laugh at yourself more
  8. Living by example
  9. Keep photos of you at your best
  10. Look into mirror til you love yourself: affirmation
  11. See  beauty in everything
  12. Meditate, pray, be in nature, gardening, art, singing
  13. GIVE AND RECEIVE HUGS
  14.  Celebrate successes
  15. Celebrate your uniqueness; no one has exactly what you have
  16.  REMEMBER:  it’s not about how much you have, but how much you’ve given and loved
  17.  Someone to share with (accountability partner, mastermind group, etc)/announce your dreams/desire
  18. Don’t be a part of the pity, grumbling or gossip party
  19. Don’t compare yourself to others
  20. Surround yourself w positivity/RADIATE (what you radiate out, you get back
  21. Self care (not enough self care= irritability, neediness, tired, overworked, self pity) take “you” time
  22. Continuously remember your true heart center, which is LOVE.
  23. Ask yourself if what you’re “should”ing is a fact or a belief

Thursday, August 2, 2012

Spirit Clips

KIM'S WEB SERIES IS LAUNCHED ON WWW.SPIRITCLIPS.COM!
Exciting news! Spirit Clips, an online inspirational membership website like Netflix that offers positive, quality inspiring material to watch! Spirit Clips is affilaited with Hallmark Hall of Fame movies and has won the Mom's choice award honoring excellence. I am honored to be a part of the speaker series with this fantastic media service! To view, just go to www.spiritclips.com and type in Kim Somers Egelsee! You can view the Making space for greatness episode free! To view the others, just join the site.